I’m sitting here and cannot start off my day without releasing some verbal nonsensicalities. And im thinking what to write. There are several things circulating in the background like birds flying round and round a forest clearing but i can’t seem to pick off just one of them to kill and eat. (Oh im sorry, were you expecting me to let it sit on my shoulder and sing?).
Judging by the general trends of posts on the blogosphere, there is a lot of animosity towards a certain Mr. Nibras Bawa. Who from day one, built his brand like a Hindi movie builds up the brand of Amir Khan, or Rajni Kanth or whoever its main male lead is. Showing off his power, wealth, education etc etc etc. But so what? different strokes get different people's rocks off. And if he wasnt lying then good for him. If he was then what did i care? there were probably hundreds of liars in the blogosphere.
Then he went and pulled a fast one. A fast Juan. Slap bang revealing a few details about Mr. RD in his blog. But I have my doubts as to how he got the data. Im thinking he first got his name through flickr/facebook etc. Then just Googled it to find his company and website. You can do it yourself if you wanted to. Getting someone's IP and server is just a matter of being a little crafty with your Google analytics account, its even easier of you've got word press. Not exactly MI6 spy shit if you ask me.
All his information on Deecee was probably taken from careful study of her blog posts. Anyone who reads her blog would have told you the same. And according to DQ, he got it wrong about who wrote that comment as well.
But what of this whole scandal? Should Mr. Bawa be burned at the ceremonial stake? But why should he? I think he mirrored some of the hypocrisy and fear in the blogosphere in general. And i cant help looking at the guy with some form of scientific awe because he seems quite so open about it. Doesn't give a shit about niceties and doesn't care if his opinions are greeted by looks down the nose at his writing style.
And I also think that stunts like what he pulled are regular happenings in the real world. I hardly think it's illegal. And hardly something for Mr. RD to worry about, which im gald to see he's not. Kottu and its little sub-social groups of isolated bloggers are sheltered environments. Other blogospheres in the rest of the world are crazy ass places. And how can you expect shit like Nibras Bawa's to compare against major fraud and cyber crimes in a place and time where blogging is almost a professional thing with millions of readers and almost the same amount of blogs? Its a jungle out there and i’ve not explored it much although i’m sufficiently aware of it to realize what idyllic environs we seem to be enjoying here at kottu.
So being the cargo cult we are, you and me get our testicles magnetized to our anuses and block our intestines to release a shitstorm at the first indication of some chap entering our village with a gun. And we can't call it unfair simply cos we choose to fight with catapults can we? Ethics after all are subjective things, bent by all of us now and then (like when we use annonymous comments, insulting or otherwise) but whenever anyone steps out of the norm and tries to be too cocky there is a monsoon of negativity directed against them.
I’m liking all this though, call me an arsehole if you like. Rock on people.
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
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arsehole? :D
i think the outrage is more cos its RD thats at the center.. i mean, lets be honest, if this had happened to some obscure blogger, the fallout would have got lost in the traffic.. and to be fair, he was picking on da dude.. of course, the retaliation is much too extreme, and since its the first time somethin like this is happening on kottu its a big deal..
u remind me of my roomie in college.. he loved sitting back and watching a good fight :D rock on indeed..
I beat you by 17 minutes.
:D
Hey Man :-)
You know what? You are an arsehole !! But I like your direct blatant approach. Glad I still see people like you in this "ANONYMOUS WORLD"
Take care buddy.
Cheers :-)
NB
speaking of the devil.....
;)
dude seriously, what did you expect?
RD made fun of NB, NB's ego was hurt and he's blazing all guns in retaliation!
do you really expect people to take ur jokes lightly all the time dude? even with friends you know where to draw the line....
Making fun of another Blogger who you don't know is obviously gonna come back an bite you in the arse one day.... and does the blogsphere really think that everybody can handle being made fun out of! geez can everybody just bloody grow up, stop complaining when you've being doing all the provoking......
This was between RD and NB, if anyone else wanted to poke their 2 cents into this... well, you gotta accept the shit that's headed your way... what do you expect people to do when their pissed off??
all very entertaining i must say!
Dude, I'm always for a good blog fight. Lately we haven't been entertained by one and was thrilled at RD's response knowing very well he had provoked the devil. Now herein I'm gonna contradict my self (or atleast some of you might think so)
The devil has no ethical boundaries,you might argue. But in this community we've built up, there are a few norms that we accept and are broken from time to time. Some sort of blogger etiquette is followed or atleast an effort made.
In this context, a bloggers anonymity is his last line of defence, and probably what he values most. For someone to disregard that is equal to killing him. Not that RD minds it all but, to someone who truly values his anonymity... just something to think about.
He's way better than the Maharaja of Bad : )
NB's an intelligent dude : )
Anyways, here's to no one hurting no one's feelings or insulting the other only to create an intentional scar.
Life is definitely too short : (
Hope NB and RD sort things out
Nice. This is probably the only sane post about this whole stupid scene.
The problem with the "Sri Lankan blogsphere" is that most bloggers take themselves and their fellow bloggers way too effing seriously.
I dunno, I'm fairly disappointed in NB's reaction. It is interesting but its also a community...and what NB did was a cheap, low blow (especially low if teh allegations on Blacker's blog are true).
If we all did that kind of thing at the slightest provocation then the whole system would fall apart. Common sense is all I'm saying is lacking. I mean really, how hard is it to figure out who each of us are?
RD's post was funny and appropriate.
NB had a right to retaliate... unfortunately, he decided that revealing RD's personal info was the best way to do so.
All out fights are a sign of a healthy blogosphere... listing people's personal information is just crass!
Good post brother..
@ myprerogative
There are many ways of dealing with the situation without going to the extreme.
What can you do when you are happy about the posts of another blogger ?
You can always write to him and request to take down the post or moderate the comments.
In this new form of narcissism what are the rules of dealing with situations like this where one's image is in question ?
Several people here had said that RD poked him having said that what are the rules for countering the poke ?
@Anon: You simply poke back man. Just b'coz he lacked the imagination to come up with a better rebuttal doesn't mean you need to go revealing each others identities.
The rules are simples. You don't bring a gun to a fist fight.
What have you got to say about this below?
http://thechillichocolate.blogspot.com/2009/05/nb-aka-neanderthal-bawa-exposed-photo.html
Can you justify?
nothing much. seeing as i'd realistically have to be qualified in psyche to comment on split personality disorders..
Hi,
Would appreciate if you would refrain from attacking individuals. here is my response.
http://www.nibrasbawa.com/2009/08/shoddy-blogging-nibras-bawa-responds.html
Above comments were not by me. Sorry, but hope you do see the point. Kindly delete this.
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